Last night’s episode of The Bachelor was hard to watch for reasons other than we’re used to. Instead of sitting through an awkward first date or a wow-the-camera-is-far-too-zoomed-in kiss, we saw three grown women bully and belittle another contestant, resulting in her standing outside in the cold sobbing.
Watching the scene at home, for many, was devastating. Rather than putting the young woman’s mental health first, producers chased Tenille down with a microphone and camera just to ensure they were getting her breakdown on film – at one point, a producer even asked, “How do you feel about Nick?”
Promoting outright bullying goes far further than having a series’ ‘villain’ for extra drama and viewers across Australia are outraged the behaviour is being not only condoned but aired across the country on national TV.
“Shame on you #TheBachelorAU The outright bullying this season is sickening to watch,” one person wrote on Twitter. “You are condoning (possibly encouraging if they are actors) Romy, Cat and lacky Alicia’s disgusting behaviour. You should have stepped in by now and you haven’t. Appalling.”
“Seriously disgusting behaviour on #TheBachelorAU this season.. it’s genuinely difficult to watch outright bullying and gaslighting,” another person commented.
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Below, all the reactions to last night’s problematic episode of The Bachelor.
Where is the mental health support? (And yes I know it’s reality TV) but tell me it exists #TheBachelorAU
— Gemma Scoble (@gemscoble) September 5, 2018
Channel 10. If you had the entirety of your teenage audience sitting in front of you what would you say to them? How would you justify letting this behavior go unpunished and for telling young women that it's ok to tear each other down? Shame on you. #TheBachelorAU
— Sam Taylor (@Sam_Bam_I_Am) September 5, 2018
Man, this season of the #TheBachelorAU has FULLY reminded me of high school and it makes me so anxious. Also mega disturbed that the whole capitalising on bullying for content is an actual thing happening. Yuck.
— Bridget Hustwaite (@BHustwaite) September 5, 2018
The producers are complicit in bullying.
— Dame Kittness (@SoftKittyWarm) September 5, 2018
They know exactly what's going on and they haven't intervened
This is an unsafe workplace and Romy is a psychopath #TheBachelorAU
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Cat and Romy do not deserve the screen time given to them. Women who body shame and bully other women should be called out, not promoted#TheBachelorAU
— Steph Wag (@sometimeseasame) September 5, 2018
Cat and Romy are literally the nastiest girls out. What purpose does pulling down another woman serve? Boost her up for being confident with her body instead. Women like them are the reason girls who aren't toned and tanned hide themselves under baggy clothes. #TheBachelorAU
— Allison 🍉 (@infiniteallien) September 5, 2018
My absolute fav is that producer telling Tenille to stop running cos it's dangerous but the reason she's running is because they won't stop following her with the cameras when she specifically asked them to stop. Fucking idiots. #TheBachelorAU
— Vanessa Stone (@VanessaStone10) September 5, 2018
The bullying on this season is appalling and it needs to be stopped. Why is this behaviour being rewarded? I'm so disappointed #theBachelorAu
— Susie (@soozasaurus_rex) September 5, 2018
Anyone else concerned that this absolute bully is not being reprimanded at all? And anyone who calls her out is punished by being sent home or ridiculed. What message does that send? #TheBachelorAU
— Billie Hutchison (@potatogenius) September 5, 2018
Also like, don’t follow The Bullies on social media because Bullies don’t deserve to be Influencers. Bullies are Bad Influencers and should not be rewarded with free meals at trendy Instagram cafes. #TheBachelorAU
— Bridget Hustwaite (@BHustwaite) September 5, 2018
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Isabelle Truman is a freelance writer based out of London, UK. She specialises in fashion, lifestyle and travel and knows a thing or two (read: everything) about both Meghan Markle and 'Sex and the City'.
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