Episode One of Married At First Sight was only a mere twenty minutes in when viewers spotted its first problem with this year’s social experiment. As the grooms met each other for the first time, they began to speak out on what they were hoping to find in a relationship.
The first blow came after the grooms used the opportunity to speak about their upcoming weddings and whether they would consummate the marriage on the first night. One of the grooms made the comment that “having sex is like eating a whole pizza”.
Twitter viewers immediately called out the show.
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Oh Christ, comparing eating pizza to sex….#MAFS
— Susan (@NovaStar77) January 28, 2019
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The fact that they put so much importance on sex (or eating a whole pizza as it were) is probably why they're not married. #mafs
— Amy 🐨 ⎊ (@amy4435) January 28, 2019
Then came the second blow. Groom Matthew came into the group and was immediately targeted by the other men for his choice not to drink. He tells the group that he had never felt “tempted” to drink alcohol and would just drink water for the remainder of the night (and experiment). Later, as the men continued to speak on their upcoming nuptials the attention once again turned to Matthew. Speaking again on whether any had planned to consummate their marriage on the wedding night, fellow groom Nic couldn’t help but turn the attention to quiet groom Matthew.
“Have you ever with a woman?” he prodded. “Just because you haven’t had many relationships I just assumed you hadn’t.”
Matthew, clearly uncomfortable, paused before finally admitting, “No, no I haven’t actually.”
Matthew is an absolute sweetheart and seems like he’s a gentleman. Shame that men criticise other men for not being masculine enough #MAFS
— Janna (@Janna87573101) January 28, 2019
To throw an introvert in with these alpha personalities it’s like a lamb to the slaughter. Already questioning the duty of care of these producers. #mafs
— Hero (@hierohero1) January 28, 2019
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Hereeeee we go, what's #mafs without a little toxic masculinity pic.twitter.com/IdLAWIfnAQ
— Amy 🐨 ⎊ (@amy4435) January 28, 2019
I feel sorry for Matthew. Sexual history is nobodies business. It’s one thing to confide in a partner about it it’s another to be put on the spot in a room full of blokes. #MAFS
— Missie (@missiexox) January 28, 2019
Despite the somewhat confrontational start to the conversation, the men reacted positively to Matthew’s confession. Showing support and understanding, the men encouraged him to be comfortable with himself.
Okay, Matt's confession of being a virgin to the boys went better than I thought it would. #MAFS
— shhh. (@fourleafc_lover) January 28, 2019
How good's a little bro on bro support?! Well done fellas. #MAFS
— Clair White (@clairwhite) January 28, 2019
The boys are being more supportive than I thought #MAFS
— Sarah (@sassyxsarah24) January 28, 2019
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Grace Back is a journalist and was formerly the Digital Culture Editor across ELLE and marie claire Australia. When not stuck in a seemingly endless Instagram scroll, you'll find Grace with her head in a good book.
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