A โbridezillaโ has been widely slammed after sharing her fury over a bridesmaid falling pregnant before the big day.
In a now deleted Reddit post titled โam I allowed to be pissed or am I just selfishโ, the unknown woman revealed that she was worried about how her friendโs pregnancy would impact her impending hens party.
โLong story short, I just found out that one of my bridesmaids will be 5-6 months pregnant on my wedding day,โ she wrote. โThis bridesmaid was also planning my super secret bachelorette party that I know no details of, but Iโm assuming involved drinking that will probably either be changed or cancelled.โ
โMaybe Iโm just thinking the worst here,โ she continued. โBut personally I think itโs wrong to get pregnant when youโre part of the bridal party and not tell the brideโฆโ
Unsurprisingly, her stance was heavily criticised.
โIs it possible that she didnโt tell you because she knew your reflex reaction would NOT be โCongratulations! Letโs get you a bridesmaidโs dress that is comfortable!โ but instead, โThis is going to mess up my bachelorette partyโ?โ one user said.
โItโs not wrong to get pregnant if youโre going to be in a bridal party. You canโt ask someone to put their life on hold for your wedding. You are being selfish,โ another responded. โAs for your bachelorette partyโฆthat just means she wonโt be able to drink,โ they added. โIโm sure you can still have the party you want.โ
โYour bachelorette party is just one night,โ another wrote. โYour friendโs pregnancy is the creation of another human that will last a lifetime.โ