We know we throw around the term โcouple goalsโ fairly often, but if thereโs anyone who deserves to be coined the phrase, itโs the Obamas.
Happily married for 25 years with two children and a presidency under their belts, Michelle and Barack Obama are forever praising each other and celebrating their relationship.
In fact, for their 25 wedding anniversary, Obama surprised his wife with a public video saying Michelle is โan extraordinary partner,โ โa great friendโ and โsomebody who could always make me laugh.โ

And it appears the former POTUS has a few relationship tips, sharing them with Dan Pfeiffer, his former communications director, who then kindly went on to share them in his book.
Pfeifferโs novel Yes, We (Still) Can, he writes that he asked Obama how to know someone was The One.
โHereโs the advice I give everyone about marriage: is she someone you find interesting?โ Obama said. You will spend more time with this person than anyone else for the rest of your life, and there is nothing more important than always wanting to hear what she has to say about things,โ he continued.
The second question was: โDoes she make you laugh?โ
And the third, โI donโt know if you want kids, but if you do, do you think she will be a good mum?โ
โLife is long. These are the things that really matter over the long term,โ Obama explained.
After pondering his bosses questions for a moment, Pfeiffer replied that his partner was โincredibly interesting, funnier than I am and will be a phenomenal mumโ.
Obama later went on to attend his wedding.