While we excitedly await it each year as the Super Bowl of the fashion world, it seems not all the stars are as excited as we are about the annual Met Gala.
While there is undoubtedly always some Met Gala drama (think Beyonce/Jay Z/Solange and the elevator incident of 2014 or the stars who broke the โno smoking in the bathroomโ rule in 2017), itโs been reported that those in attendance are often miserable and celebrities are starting to lose interest in attending โ probably why theyโd rather be smoking in the bathroom thenโฆ
Gwyneth Paltrow, Amy Schumer, Lena Dunham, Demi Lovato and Tina Fey have all previously spoken out about their hatred of the infamous event and according to Page Six the sentiment is spreading; with insiders saying the event has โlost itโs appealโ and describing it as the โMean Girlsโ of events.
โI have gone to it once, and it is such a jerk parade,โ Tina Fey previously said during an interview with former Late Show host David Letterman. โIt is so unbelievable. Clearly, Iโll never go again. But you go, and itโs this beautiful space and itโs just every jerk from every walk of life is there wearing, like, some stupid thing.โ

US Vogue Editor-In-Chief Anna Wintour, who has been at the helm as Gala Chair since 1995, reportedly โ[bans] those she dislikes and [instills] a pecking order everywhere from the red carpet (she reportedly dictates what time each celebrity arrives) to the seating chart (the closer to Wintour, the closer to God),โ reports Page Six.
Once the hottest ticket on the calendar, A-listers are now reportedly turning down their invites โ something that was once unheard of.
โLook, itโs a very tedious night,โ one celebrity publicist says. โItโs very much work for them. Itโs very structured, thereโs a lot of pressure to network, and [itโs] not that much of an enjoyable evening.โ
While the Met Gala dates all the way back to 1946, it wasnโt until Wintour took the reigns that it became the juggernaut that it is today, with tickets starting at around AU$40,000 โ but donโt forget thatโs only if youโre approved.

Tables are usually purchased by designers and then celebrities and models are invited as their guests (you guessed it, these guests must also be approved).
โI think celebrities are nervous [to attend] because itโs the whoโs-who of fashion and the whole entertainment industry as a whole,โ makeup artist Ashlee Glazer who has worked with stars for the Met Gala told Page Six. โThey are going to be judged from 360 degrees.โ
However despite Gwyn, Lena and Amy all famously dissing the event, they all subsequently returned.
โItโs to stay relevant and stay in the good graces of Anna Wintour,โ says another source. โShe can make or break you. To be honest, Iโm surprised she even let them back.โ
It remains to be seen which stars will and wonโt attend the 2023 Met Gala โ themed Karl Lagerfeld: A Line of Beauty โ but either way, weโll be watching!